Davis' Book

I thought I'd post pics of some of our album to Davis. Obviously, these are scanned images and not so great in quality, but they give you the gist of it! The first page, is a pic of our family holding a pic of Davis, but I don't have the scan of that one.

Page 2: Introducing Daddy and Mama

Page 3: The kids together
Page 4: Introducing Mama
Page 5: Introducing Daddy
Page 6: Introducing Brayden
Page 7: Introducing Gracie
Page 8: Celebrating Davis' Birthday

Page 9: Introducing His new Room
Page 10: Letters from Mama and Daddy (not yet written when this was scanned)

Page 11: We love you and new pics

After this, we had a grandparents page, a aunts and uncles page and a couple of friends pages followed by some kids' artwork and a pic of our house and car! Just thought I'd share!

Yes, I have a ton of time on my hands b/c Greg's out of town and I'm spending my evening blogging with you guys!

We're Going to Liberia

Yes, we are planning a trip to Liberia this fall. No, we will not be picking up Davis. . .ok, I probably need to start at the beginning, huh?

During this whole process, as many of you know, God has really placed in me a desire to assist AoH in their relief projects. This is why we started, Fasting for Feeding (check my older post by that name if you don't know what I'm talking about). In the end, I planned on just going to some families I know and asking if they'd like to support AoH. So, one day, I'm sharing this dream of helping fundraising with Donna. She said, "the best way to help anyone understand is to just bring them here." I initially thought she meant after Davis was home. However, I won't be wanting to leave Davis home alone 6 months after he comes home, nor will I want to trek him back to Africa. This means, I will probably be not taking a trip of this magnitude for at least 1 year after he's home or 1 1/2 years from now. "No," she said, "I mean now. . .whenever they can came." SO, Greg and I started praying. This would be a HUGE thing on many levels. . .who would come? How could we afford it? How about meeting Davis and leaving him there? Again, let's just go back to praying. Well, Greg and I have now been praying about this for a few weeks. Last night, I went to Greg and laid out a few things God has laid on my heart:

1. The new knowledge that Acres is literally having to turn people away b/c there isn't enough space. This makes building that new complex a life or death issue.
2. The lack of a way to truly impress upon someone the importance without a sensory experience,
3. I had studied the Greek translation of James 1:27. Literally translated it says to "visit" the orphans and widows in their distress. We usually translate it "care for". Isn't it interesting, I thought. You can "care for" people you do not spend time with. . .i.e. send money to. However, it is difficult to not care for people you "visit". The Lord chose that phrase for a reason I believe. It is so important to open our hearts, not just our wallets to truly "visit" people in their distress. To allow their pain to become our own.

Greg's reply was, "I think our answer will come in whatever you find at the post office tomorrow". Let me back up a bit. Greg has been very concerned about something at work. On Saturday, we arrived home to find a USPS note saying that we had missed an Express Mail Package addressed to Greg. He was very nervous that this would be bad news concerning his business. So, he wanted me to go straight to the post office this morning to check it out. He basically said that what was in that letter would answer our question. WELL, I got to the post office this morning. NO, it was not bad news for Greg. . .In fact, if he were looking for a sign from the Lord I think he found it. . .It was his Passport! We had sent away for it just 2 weeks ago (if that!). The Lord has answered!

So, all that to say. . .we are currently planning what we are calling a "fact finding / fund raising" trip to Liberia this fall. Most likely the early part of October. This will be a trip for anyone who is interested in significantly supporting the ministry of AoH to come and see for themselves. They can see the NEED in person. They also will be able to see AoH's relief projects up close, to see how AoH spends their money and how they reach the people of Liberia. Your turn: PRAY!!!

1. Pray that God will lay on our hearts who to invite and will give us the words to say when we do extend that invitation
2. Pray that God will begin that work in them even now. That they will listen to the Lord's leading and will respond with obedience.
3. Pray that the details will be worked out smoothly
4. Pray that He will help us pay our own way.


I know He is in control and the rest is up to Him! Please join us in praying for these people who may come. It will not be an easy trip for anyone. I expect many to not "want" to go to Africa. I mean, seeing this kind of poverty is not an easy thing. God stirs up in us and does major stuff in these situations. Please pray for a willingness to first just bring it to the Lord and then be willing to listen to His answer. I thank you for covering this in prayer with us. This is a step of faith and I can't wait to see how He answers.

Anticipating His Work,
Brandi
NOTE: Yes, we will meet Davis. Aagh!!! In just a few months, I will meet my son!! However, per Melodie, Donna and Patty's advice, we will not introduce ourselves as Mom and Dad. We will just be the wonderful volunteers who happen to take a liking to him. Then, when we come back he'll just be glad it's us.

Help My Friends. . .if you feel so led!

My friends. . .2 of my friends are working desperately to get their adorable children home. Both of them have started adoption funds. Check out their sites and if you feel led, join their journey to bring their little ones home! Remember, every dollar helps. Yes, you can literally donate ONE dollar. This is a great way to help your kids get involved too. I just read a comment on Jocelyn's blog about a woman who encouraged each of her children to donate $1 to help on this little boy's journey to America.

Jocelyn, who is bringing Home Isaac

Jen, who is bringing Naoimi Home
I've linked you straight to Jocelyn's fund and to Jen's blog. To donate to Jen's family just click on the donate here link on her blog!

State Adoptions

If God is stirring your heart towards adoption, yet you don't necessarily feel called to international adoption, please check out this website. It is for kids already available for adoption in the state of Florida (although, they are available for families outside FL). These are just a few of the many kids available and looking for families. Check out Heart Gallery

Blessings. . .yes, I'm joining in too!

On the note of Blessings. . . .

many of my "blog friends" have started a list of 10 blessings, and I'm joining in. . .
so, here I go (the list is not in order and is by far not long enough!!)

1. My family (yes, I'm combining them into 1!) My husband who loves me and the kids beyond measure and loves to spend time with us more than anything else! For Brayden and his sweet, gentle, loving personality. I love listening to him quote scripture, pray, and simply ask me to "snuggle with him 10 more minutes"! Gracie and her vivacious personality. I cannot describe her in words, you have to see her in action. This girl can eat! She loves other kids and absolutely lights up when she sees her Daddy or Brayden and feels she cannot live without me!

2. A large, believing family! I love that on both of our Families are SUPER excited about our adoption. My kids have Great grandparents and aunts and uncles who love Jesus and love them! Just check Laura's blog or my parents living room wall and you'll see Davis picture up already. . .along with lots of pics of Gracie and Brayden!

3. Deep friendships with Amazing women, (you know who you are!), God has given me sweet friends who know me and love me in spite of who I am! Who share the excitement of my children and the journey of my faith. Who love "girls nights out" and just plain going to Chick Fil A with the kids. For the beginning friendships and the ones that have been building for 20 years, I am deeply thankful for the women God has put in my life!

4. Living "the dream"! Unless we are super close or you have known me for my entire life, I don't know if I could even begin to describe how adopting a child from Africa is the realization of the dream of my heart. I have wanted to do this as long as I can remember and the fact that it is happening is still a bit surreal to me! I am truly living the deepest dream of my heart!

5. For a God who can put all that together. He is SO BIG! I can't believe that He could create for me a child half a world away and place that child in my heart. I ache for Davis in a way that only God could have created and LOVE the fact that Davis and I are both wrapped in MY Daddy's arms at the same time!

6. Mentors. . .Cathy Sullivan and Jon Dunwell to be exact! I LOVE that they will take the time to help me "process" my life! In whatever I am going through, they take the time (and time is not something they have in excess right now!) to coach me in my journey. To help me see through my emotions and sinfulness to pinpoint my own "work" and what I need to be bringing to the Father. Many times, I probably could come to the same conclusions they do, but they save me a bunch of time and heartache by telling me flat out "you're being self-focused right now. . .that's about you and you need to focus on HIM".

7. My "job"! I put it in quotes b/c it's just a sweet thing that they let me have it! I'm just a volunteer, but my pastor still considers me "staff" which is a very fun thing! I LOVE being on our wonderful church staff. I love serving with these amazing people (see #6! Cathy is our Dir. of Discipleship and Jon is our Pastor) and watching what God does at our church. I love the small groups and the teams I lead. I love being able to have a front row seat for God's Amazing Redemptive Work in people's lives!!!

8. The hard stuff. . . yes, I am Choosing to put this on the list! The hard stuff draws me closer to HIM and that makes it amazing. The last couple of years haven't been easy, but I have felt the Lord draw me into more intimacy with Him than I have ever experienced before and that is GOOD!

9. Small Groups and Blogging. . .Yes, I put these together. Why? Because the thing I appreciate about both is the opportunity to join someone on their journey!!! I love this!

10. The Adventure. . . .ok, so I tend to be someone who wants to peer over God's shoulder and check out what's on the schedule for the next 10 years. . .but,I gotta tell you that I'm glad He doesn't let me. I love that there is always something new around every corner and He's there to share it with me. It seems that everyone I know is embarking on some sort of adventure, whether in a new job, adoption, moving, having babies, joining small groups, stepping out into ministry or some other aspect!!! I love that God calls us into the unknown and then uses the ENTIRE process to teach us to TRUST HIM (if you haven't yet, read Trusting God by Jerry Bridges!)

There's my list. . .by all means not exhaustive, although in my long-windedness you may not believe that! I am so THANKFUL to serve a Great and Mighty God!!!!!! Love you, sweet Jesus!

Care Package Lesson (stolen from another blog!)

This was a post on another AoH family's blog (Joy over at Wedan Family Grows )that really challenged me, touched me, well, let's be honest I just sat and bawled the first time I read it and then later when I read it over the phone to a friend.

"This week it was posted on the Acres of Hope discussion board that the orphanage was in need of several supplies. Always eager to give to underprivileged children, I quickly made the arrangements to mail a shoebox sized care package to an adoptive family who will be traveling to the orphanage in August. Off to Target I went with my list in hand, cheerful to have the opportunity to give to these needy children.

Somewhere between the summer closeout onesies and the medicine aisle, it hit me. I was filling a care package for my son. My son is the needy, underprivileged child that will benefit from our charity. Of course, we know this, but it resonated on a deeper level. I checked my cart. Suddenly it became very personal. Are these supplies "good enough" for our child? What if our child is teething - will the orphanage have pain reliever for him? What if he gets a cut - will they have ointment for it? A cough - cough medicine?

Clearly, I could not fit everything my son would need in a shoebox. I would have to rely on the charity of others. So, when I really think about it, our family, separated by an ocean, is both privileged and underprivileged. We are giving to charity and accepting charity at the same time. As a recipient, I have a new gratitude for people who give, and specifically for Acres of Hope, who is faithfully providing love and care for orphans, including our son."

Since then, we've begun collecting donations for the orphanage. Now, realizing that this is just "some stuff" we'll send over to "some needy kids" has touched a deeper place in my heart. When Jess and I were in Walmart picking up medicines we asked aloud, "What could Davis need right now" "How can we help his friends?" and when we got up to the counter and she had a basket as full as mine, it made me just about cry. Then, my friends, Carrie, Allison, Jeanine and Shon and Jen have all collected things to send over. Every time, my eyes well up, b/c they're sending stuff to MY child. As Joy pointed out, my needy child whom I cannot provide for at this time!

Thanks Joy for the reminder and thanks to everyone who's donating to AoH and helping my little precious boy!

Davis' Birthday Video and pictures

Here it is, our video from Davis' birthday! The kids, especially Brayden and Abbie, were so cute about his picture! (Abbie is Jessica's little girl and the love of Brayden's life right now!)



I can't wait to show him this!

Some notes: I'm in the pink and Greg is at the end by Gracie. Brayden and Abbie are sitting by Davis' picture (check out Abbie kissing him at the end!) and Abbie's dad (and Jessica's hubby) Nathaniel is sitting next to Abbie. Jessica is filming so not in the video. Thanks Jess Oh yeah. . .and sorry about the singing. . .we were more concerned about getting the kids to sign than singing well!

Here are the pictures too!

Check it out!!!!!!!

My friend, Jen and I are working on a list. . .you may contribute if you'd like. . .

Here it is: Our list of reasons why Acres of Hope is the best agency around:

1. They love Jesus and it shows!
2. They are involved not just in matching children, but run the orphanage itself and do MANY other relief projects in the country (I could go on and on about this b/c it makes me passionate)

3. Melodie's blog. . .mostly b/c I get to see her character and how much she loves the Lord which makes my wait so much easier b/c I know she's loving my little one!

4. The schedule! Yes, I have the actual schedule of what Davis is doing during the day. Check the right hand side of my blog to see it if you haven't already.
5. The communication. . .they have a yahoogroup set up so all of the parents can ask each other questions and the AoH staff pops up to answer ones as well
6. The other families. . .I have already developed friendships (of course, they are starting as E-Friends) with many of the other moms. I even have Rae and Robin on speed dial!

7. THE PICTURES!!!!!!! I received 2 pictures with the original referral. 2 more on his 2nd birthday and today I received 5 more pictures!!!!!!! In case you didn't know, that is UNHEARD of in adoption circles!! So, thank you AoH! I thank my God whenever I think of YOU! I tried to change the direction of the bottom pics, but it just won't do it. . .so you'll have to crane your neck!

I71H? CHECK!

One more step done! Our I 71 H came in the mail today. This is our

"Notice of favorable determination concerning application for
advance processing of orphan petition"

This means that we got our I600a approved which asks the US Gov't for permission to seek adoption of an orphan.

No, it doesn't make any sense to me either! However, it is the last piece of paperwork we have been waiting for. Now, Patty takes all of our paperwork with her to Liberia at the beginning of August. Then, we wait for his court date and our adoption to be finalized. After that are visas, passports and finally TRAVEL DATES!

I can't wait until he's ours! By the way, Westwood Girls, I'm bringing my photo album to make for Davis tomorrow night to scrapbooking! I'd, of course, love all your help!

Blogging friends, I'll post pics of his book after its done!

Brandi

Brayden and Adoption

Brayden has been SO excited about the adoption, it is so cute! I just had to share a couple of his stories. . .

First, I think he may be one of the only 3 year olds who has ever brought in his sister's Madame Alexander doll (a fancy, expensive baby doll) and exclaimed, "meet baby Wildebeast". Seriously, the baby's name is Wildebeast? Then, I asked: "Where are you guys going?" Brayden replies, "Oh, to Africa". He had been watching Little Einsteins earlier and while they were "on safari" Brayden calls to me, "Mommy, the Einsteins are going to Africa to visit my brother. . .And some animals"!

My favorite thing to do with Brayden is pray with him. He like to ask God things, pause for a moment and come back with an answer. . .which I love b/c of his assumption that God will, of course, answer!!!! How many adults need to search the scriptures and hear the truth 100 times before really believing that God WILL answer! Anyways, back to the story. . .We're laying in his bed and Brayden decides to ask God, "Jesus, will you give Davis a hug for me, since I can't?" he pauses for a moment and turns to me, very matter-of-factly. "Jesus said He would!" Oh, Brayden, I know He did b/c I ask Him that every day!

The last cute thing, could actually get us into some trouble! Brayden has never noticed or mentioned skin color before. However, when we pulled into church last Sunday an African American family pulled in right behind us. Brayden excitedly exclaimed, "There's Davis!" "No," I explained, "Davis is still in Africa." "Well, that girl looks just like my brother!" Cracks me up, but I may have some explaining to do if he does this in the grocery store!!!

Pics and a Prayer

First, I thought I'd Finally post about Davis' birthday. We were sad that he isn't with us, but we definitely celebrated him! I woke up at 5 am and my first thought was of him. I prayed that the Lord would use Melodie and his nannies to love on him during that day! God amazed me by the thought that the same God who could comfort me when I couldn't hold Davis was the one actually holding Davis half a world away! Then, on the way to work, the Christian radio station was talking about stories of God's faithfulness. So, I called in and they put me on the radio to talk about Davis' birthday. . . .it was also a great way to get the word out about acres of hope! I gave their web address and told about all their relief projects and everything!!! Tuesdays are my kids day with "Aunt" Jenny, my friend who watches them while I go work at the church. Well, the kids and Jenny celebrated Davis too! She posted his 8 x 10 pic on one of the dining room chairs and they sang happy birthday and ate ice cream! (see the picture above!)

That night, our friends came over for dinner. Jessica was so sweet. She spent most of Monday night trying to research birthday traditions from Liberia on the web. (She thinks that possibly the lack of electricity and literacy make it hard to log all of their wonderful customs on the internet!) However, she did find a recipe for Liberian rice bread which we made. So, we ate dinner and had birthday cupcakes again with Davis' picture taped to a chair! We took video but it's on Jessica's camera and she's on vacation. . .so look for that later! It was such a fun way to celebrate with the kids! I love having friends who celebrate with us too. Many of them remembered and called me on that day just to say they were praying for him on his birthday! We ended the night with cards. . .since Davis isn't here to open presents, Jess got some for me instead. The Vanity Fair "Africa" edition and a card game called "Borders" which is geography game about Africa. The rule was, if you draw Liberia you automatically win and must stand up and "do the Isaac" (if you don't know what that is, check Joceyln's blog ) which Jess did very well upon winning!! What a fun day and a great way to celebrate Davis. I can't wait to show him the pictures and video when he gets home!!

That night, I also got a very fun call from Donna saying that Melodie had taken birthday pics of Davis that day. They are cute, but kind of sad. Our referral picture is just so cute and not "orphanagy" (that's a word, right?!) He looks sad.. .which is true. Melodie said he's having a hard time adjusting to life at the orphanage so please pray for him. I can't wait to get him in my arms and really KNOW him. If I didn't know better, I'd think this was a different kid altogether! It doesn't even look like him. I think he's going to be like my other two who really shine when they smile!


On another note. . . would you guys join Greg and I in prayer? We are praying about a decision and really want to follow the Lord's lead. It involves Acres of Hope and Davis and we just really are seeking His wisdom. I pray and dwell on James 1 today, "If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault and it will be given to him.". We're hoping to decide very soon and we'll let you know to be praying a LOT more if this is something God calls us to! Thanks for joining us in our journey!

Safe?

I have talked to a few friends lately who are in "dangerous" territory. God's calling them, or possibly calling them, to crazy things. I am reminded of a line from the book The Lion , The Witch, and the Wardrobe, where one of the children asks the Beavers about Aslan. Upon learning that Aslan is a lion, the children ask, "Is he safe?" The reply: "Safe? Who said anything about safe? Of course he's not safe. But he's good"

Dictionary.com lists the definition of safe as: secure from liability to harm, injury, danger, or risk. I wish I had a dictionary.com for how God defines words. I'm thinking that his definition of harm it a LOT different than mine. I think of harm as difficult, anything involving pain, anything uncomfortable. I'm thinking since God's big plan for me involves more of my increasing holiness than just happiness, our definitions may differ a bit!

So, I ask you this, if you have not already asked yourself. . . .Is your God safe? Are you keeping God in a safe place so as not to bring you "possible harm, injury, danger or risk"? Are you pretty sure that God's definitions don't match up with yours? Because, if you're asking the question, is He Safe? No, he's not. He calls us to crazy, dangerous, mind blowing things, BUT HE IS GOOD! He will walk that unsafe road right with us and in the process change us to be more like Him!!

Where am I keeping God at a Safe Distance? Or even closer to home, judging him as not good b/c I don't feel safe?

Rockin' Girl Blogger Awards

I won an AWARD!!! Yes, I never win anything, but Mommy Zabs
presented me with this Rockin' Girl Blogger Award last week! Things have been crazy, as you all know, so I haven't given out my awards until now. By the way, if you're looking for a great blog, check out Mommy Zabs. She's hilariously funny, sweet and very random! She blogs about life, politics, mommyhood and her love for Jesus. . not in that order! So, go check out the blogs I'm highly recommending. They all share their real journeys and blog quite frequently (2 of the things I was looking for!)

So now (drumroll please) the awards for Rockin' Girl Bloggers go to. . . .

1. My Journey. . . This is Jess' journey through the adoption of a little African American boy through the state system. She also happens to be one of my best friends in the world and the mommy of my future daughter in law, Abbie!

2. Rachel's Blatherings These are Rae's thoughts as she travels the adoption journey to get Spencer (see my last post) and Siah home from Liberia. She also has become a very good friend through emails and phone calls.

3. Staying the Course This is the blog of Robin from Alabama. A sweet, Southern mama of 5 who is now adopting a little boy in Liberia who needs to get home quick. Keep her on your radar for the next few months b/c they will be quite a journey of Trust and I know she'll share it all with us!

4. Just some of Laura's Ramblings This is the the blog of my sister-in-law, Laura. She's a wonderful girl and the best aunt ever so you'll see lots of pictures of my kids!

5. Jackie Sue This is the blog of a dear friend at church who has adopted twice from China. She is now home and blogs about life at home with her newest little one, Eliana Joy. I'd HIGHLY suggest going back in her blog and reading her whole journey. She truly blogs her heart and her journey with Jesus and you'll grow closer to the Lord just reading it!

This doesn't even count: Jocelyn , Jen , Charity , Amber , Amy and a hundred other blogs I check regularly! But, I guess I have to leave others for you guys to tag! Girls, if you were awarded, you need to save the award to your computer and award 5 more girls!

Prayer Needed

Ok, everyone reading this: Stop now and go read Rae's Blog
Now, sign off your computer and spend the next 10 minutes in prayer for Spencer and for the Wilson family!!! Write down his name and post it somewhere in your home to remember to pray unceasingly for him!

Official Referral!!!!!!!

Our Entire family is pleased (that is SO not a strong enough word!) to announce that we have accepted the referral of Henry Davis who turned 2 years old yesterday! We are so excited to welcome Davis (we'll use his current last name as his new first name) into our family! Brayden already runs around saying, "my brother. . ."! Please join us in praising our Jesus for the addition of Davis to our family. He already does everything with us as we carry an 8 x 10 picture of him everywhere and Brayden carries 4 x 6's for all of his friends!

Isn't he adorable?????

Now for the story!

On June 27, Donna (from Acres of Hope) posted a comment on the yahoogroup for AoH families saying, " For any of you families who are waiting on kids.
You might want to consider a boy (smile) we have been getting in quite
a few of them lately.Here is the lastest new kids waiting on referral." then she listed 7 kids with their names, birthdates and special needs. There were 2 sibling groups and 2 children listed as special needs (neither of which we feel called to b/c of our toddlers at home and our lack of great medical insurance) and then another little one listed as: Henry - 07/05. Immediately, I was calculating in my mind. Brayden's birthday is June of '04 and Gracie's is March of '06. We had been praying for a little boy right in between the 2. In fact, I had really been praying specifically for a little boy with a summer '05 birthday b/c then he would be exactly in between the 2! So, I emailed Donna pretty quick. I was just sure they had simply forgotten to list his special needs and if not I did not know if we were even eligible for a referral. We had sent in our application and had gotten most of our paperwork together and we just waiting for our homestudy to be completed before we sent in our dossier. Well, Donna calls me back a couple of days later, "so, you're interested in Henry?" Me: "Yes. . .can I be?. . .Does he have special needs and you just forgot to list them?. . .Am I eligible for a referral? . . .What do you know about him?" I'm pretty sure I said all of those things at once! Donna said that "no he doesn't have any special needs", "he's the cutest little thing I've ever seen", and 2 phrases that nearly knocked me over, "can you overnight me everything you have?" and "I'll write your name down here right next to his until I get all your paperwork in." Yes, that nearly threw me into a tizzy! I did not even know what that meant "I'll write your name down next to his" did that mean he was ours???? So, I quickly worked to get it all done. We were vacationing with Laura (greg's sister and the best aunt ever justsomeoflaurasramblings.blogspot.com ) so we called my Papa and my Mom to run around Orlando gathering things and overnighted them that day. While we were at the movies later that day, I checked my email from my phone (which I did about 100 times a day for the next week hoping for something from Donna!) and she had emailed me. I noticed that there was an attachment and picture. Yes, I started freaking out! My phone won't let me download attachments!!! aagh! The one thing I noticed right away was that the jpeg was named "henry davis". Immediately I turned to Greg and said "that's his name, his name will be Davis" Greg agreed immediately. As soon as the movie was over, we headed to our friends', Ali and Ryan, house and checked our email. My eyes filled with tears instantly. My son! ooh, I'd been hoping he was cute! He sure is!!

Well, the next few days were a lot of waiting. . .and waiting. . .and learning patience. We decided to wait until the referral was official before showing him off. This was a hard lesson for me, b/c I like to share everything with everyone! The next week, the Lord taught me about waiting on Him and putting this little boy back in His hands constantly! (although, I think the next few months may be about REALLY learning that lesson some more!) I also didn't really want to show people by email b/c I like to be there to see their faces. . .(so you better comment me with your thoughts!) We showed Laura b/c we wouldn't get to be with her when we got final word and spent the weekend with his picture up on her computer. He even "played" cards with us! Well, the next week on Thursday night at 11:30 I got an email from Donna saying, "yes, show your parents and I'll call you soon to make it official". I called immediately and woke both sets of parents up and told them to check their email while I was on the phone! So Fun! Still, though, I didn't believe my own ears. . .so, the next morning I called Donna again to clarify "what you're saying is that this is the boy you will refer to us as soon as you process all the paper work?" "Yes, consider this an Unofficial Referral!" YEAH!! So, we begin to show his picture to everyone! I'll admit, I did show the guy at Chick Fil A that day!!! Well, last night I got a call from Donna b/c she had new pictures taken on his birthday (see yesterday's post). I said, "ok, you'll call me tomorrow to make everything official, right?" Her response was music to my ears, "Girl, I already consider this official or I wouldn't be sending you birthday pictures!" So, now I can share him with the world! (meaning you people who check my blog!)

This is so fun! I so appreciate my sweet friends who are practically as excited as we are! We even had a ton of birthday celebrations yesterday which I will post pictures of tomorrow!

I Love you guys! This will be a long 6-9 months waiting for Davis, but I can't wait to see all that God will teach us in the process!

Happy Birthday Davis!

Happy Birthday to you,
Happy Birthday to you,
Happy Birthday, dear DAVIS
Happy Birthday to you!!!

I know our referral won't be "official" until tomorrow (for Henry Davis, who we will name Davis), but I could not let this day go by without celebrating my dear, new, little son's second birthday! Oh sweet boy, I wish you were already home and I could pick you up, twirl you around and kiss you all over! I woke up this morning thinking about you and praying for you. I pray that you are having fun today with Miss Melodie and all your sweet nannies. I hope you're having fun with all your other 2 year old friends too. . .and don't worry b/c I'm making friends with their mamas so that we can see them when you're home too! I love you sweet thing and can't wait to get my arms around you. Today, I'll have to trust that Jesus will wrap His arms around both of us and that Miss Melodie and the nannies will be Jesus' tangible arms to you today! Oh yeah, Brayden says, "Happy Birthday to Davis, my brother!" Love you!

What I'm Learning. . .Thanks Beth Moore

I realized that I'm blogging a lot about what I'm learning through adoption, but not enough about the other stuff! I am in 2 small groups and learning a ton through both of them! So, you guys can now expect posts every other Monday (after our every other Sunday Night Girl's study) and every Friday (after our Friday morning Mom's group). . .

Last night, we watched session 5's video in Beth Moore's Daniel study. Here is what stuck out to me. . . Daniel 5:12 says, "This man Daniel, whom the king called Belteshazzar, was found to have a keen mind and knowledge and understanding, and also the ability to interpret dreams, explain riddles and solve difficult problems. Call for Daniel, and he will tell you what the writing means." The phrase for "solve difficult problems" is literally translated "loosening of knots". Beth pointed out that if you feel like you are in the middle of the knot, know that God can, in His wisdom, enable you with the wisdom to "loosen the knots" or "solve difficult problems". Well, I don't know about you, but I've got some knots around me. I'm not in the middle of all of these knots, yet still deeply troubled by them. I realized last night that I often take God off his throne and forget just how big, wise, and sovereign our God really is. I begin to look around and I despair b/c there doesn't seem to be any possible way for these "knots" to get worked out in a way that everyone is ok. So, today I confess my lack of trust, my taking my eyes of who He is and focusing on the "knots" themselves and just how big and tangled they are. Instead, I beg God to give someone the gift of Daniel to "loosen the knots". Lord, give us wisdom but even more help us to trust in the midst of the knots in our lives. We know that NONE of them are too big or too tangled for you to handle. So, we Praise You Lord in the Knot. . .possibly the new version to the Casting Crowns' song, "Praise You in the Storm"???

Orphanage Schedule

Donna from Acres of Hope posted this on our yahoogroup. It is the kids' daily schedule at the orphanage! What a fun thing to read. I need to figure out Liberian time now so I can know during the day what my little man is up to! Thanks Donna for filling us in!

Daily routine at the infant and toddler orphanage:
7:00 - Wake up
7:30 - Baths
8:30 – Breakfast
9:00 – Play time
10:00 – Preschool
12:00 – Lunch
1:00 – Naps
3:00 – Play time (outdoors when it's not raining)
5:00 – Bath
5:30 – Supper
7:00 - Devotions
7:30 – Bedtime

How Great is Our God

Yes, we serve a faithful God!!! And sweet too! You guys have been praying with me that I would know more by today. Well, I talked to Donna this morning and we have an unofficial referral!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Yeah! This basically means that we have been matched up with a little waiting healthy almost 2 year old boy! However, all of our paperwork has to be in and processed to have our official referral which will happen on Wednesday. I'll write the whole story then and post adorable pictures (he's seriously the cutest boy ever!). . .for my Orlando friends, I'll be bringing the picture with me to church on Sunday. Actually, I'll be bringing it with me everywhere. . .I have to confess that I showed the guy at Chick Fil A this morning!

We are thrilled and can't wait to share the whole story and his beautiful face! Love you all!
Brandi

Forced Fasting for Feeding!

In the absence of any Real News. . .meaning, adoption news, I thought I'd blog about our anniversary dinner this weekend. We went away to Naples for the weekend to spend time with Greg's sister Laura. We had so much fun being with her and her fiance, Slim. They are so wonderful with our kids and our kids LOVE them in return. (Just check out justsomeoflaurasramblings.blogspot.com to see just what a great aunt she is!) So anyways, on Sunday it was our 7th anniversary. We decided to go away to a hotel for the night and leave the kids with Aunt Laura. We found a very cool hotel, the Naples Grande, which is designed a lot like a W hotel. It was so lovely to lay by the pool and read!!! (Greg's reading Blue Clay People which is a fabulous book if you want to understand modern day Liberia more) Then, we decided to go out for a nice, dinner at an ocean front restaurant at sunset. So, we find this great restaurant and sit down for dinner. Greg orders a steak. Now, this isn't just any steak, it's a $47 steak! I'm pretty sure half of what you're paying for is the view! Only 3 restaurants are actually on the ocean in Naples b/c oceanfront property is very expensive! So, Greg orders his steak medium rare, right? The first steak that comes out is most definitely Well Done. So, Greg apologizes to the waiter and says he doesn't mean to be difficult but the steak is way over done. The waiter apologizes and goes to make another steak. This second steak comes back (by this time, I've already finished my meal) and it also is done at least Medium Well, very far from medium rare. So, alas, the manager comes over and offers more steak. At this point, Greg is over it and says no, he doesn't need any other steaks, so the manager comps the rest of our meal. While we're walking on the beach watching the sunset Greg is super bummed that our big romantic dinner out was kind of a bummer (by the way, I also had a horrible canker sore so I couldn't eat much and really bad cramps!) As I'm trying to comfort Greg, though, I realize one thing, we did save ourselves about $120. Wait, we were planning on spending that money, so IT CAN GO IN OUR FUND!!! So, my honey may not have had dinner that night, but 120 Liberian children will get to eat!!! SO worth it!!!

Is that considered Fasting for Feeding?

PS. If you don't understand "fasting for feeding" go back and read the challenge on that in an earlier post.

Things they are a happening. . .

I'm not sure what to write here. . .there is stuff going on in the adoption process, but I'm not sure if I'm allowed to talk about it yet. We are being considered for a "waiting child" whose info was sent out on the AoH (Acres of Hope, our adoption agency) yahoo group. They have "written our name down next to his name" but it won't be an official referral until all of our paperwork is in. So, right now I'm dying inside and BEGGING you guys to join us in prayer.

Yes, this would be WAY fast for a referral. Actually, it would be skipping about 5 months of the process. I just wrote Rae that right now I've been told "you may be pregnant, I'll let you know" that 's killing me inside. I also feel like the Lord is leading me to "ponder these things in my heart" like he told Mary. This is not my M.O. by the way. . .I ponder in my head, heart and out loud at all times. This is why I'm not writing every single detail. You guys will get a much more detailed post with the WHOLE story hopefully soon. Please pray for my heart during this week.

Things to Pray.. . . and, yes, I admit these things would be MIRACULOUS. . .but, we serve a miraculous God!

1. That Cathy finishes our homestudy quickly. She said Tues or Wed., I'm praying Tuesday!
2. That there will be very few changes needed
3. That the homestudy will be finalized and emailed to her agency by Wed.
4. That the lady at her agency will have time and get it printed and notorized that day
5. That it will get to Acres by Thursday or Friday
6. Someone will be at Acres to process it when it gets there
7. That we will get word on Friday that it is official

NOTE: The reason we are really praying that it will be official by Friday is that my parents are going out of town on Sunday for a week and would really like to see their new grandson before they leave.

Other note: The reason we want it official is not to "rush and get him before someone else does". I believe that God has the perfect home picked out for this little guy and if it's not with us, then please Lord shut the door. I'm just ready to know! I know that even when you get a referral that it's not a guarantee, but I won't hold my heart back at that point. I will still show the world and happily throw my heart into this child!

YES, I know that getting this done by the end of this week is HUGE and probably unrealistic. But, if I've learned anything in my walk with the Lord, sometimes he Does the Huge, unrealistic things just b/c that's how sweet He is. . . so I ask you to join me in praying for it!!

Love to you all!